Reasons men cheat..............

This is a sticky subject. No pun intended. I believe the #1 reason men cheat is because their wives no longer pay attention to them. It's not easy in today's world with work, kids, their sports. I can remember when married life turned mundane. After child #1, you're busy. Then you have child #2, busier. If your husband works all the time, it's hard to make time for each other. Can marriage survive infedelity? who knows. The one thing I can't stand is that single gal that can't seem to find a man, and finds YOURS. There is a reason she's single men. You may think she's the cat's meow........but if she was........why is she still single? It is true, most of the good ones are taken. There are a few good ones still single, but that single gal who looks for married men wont' find them. I say you have to try to keep the home fires burning. it's not easy. Especially with temptation. I have not cheated. The number one reason is because I love my family. Sure , there are cute guys out there........but I have too much to lose. Read on about cheating............http://www.zurinstitute.com/infidelity_affairs.pdf why do YOU think men/women cheat???

Do YOU have a horrible neighbor?

I think I should bring Horrible neighbor Tuesdays back. This is Friday, but I want to tell the story anyway. I've read so many stories of horrible neighbors, and I've seen many more horrible than mine. I can reflect now because my horrible redneck alcoholic neighbor Billy-Bob is now gone. First, he hurt himself while drunk. He fell about 20 feet from a ladder after drinking. He broke his arm, and made himself physically older than what he really is. Billy bob is/was an alcoholic. We would see him drinking all the time. I never realized how disgusting he really was until he moved. Billy Bob spent 80% of his time outside. So did his teenage children. I told my own 17 yr old he was not allowed to associate with them. My son had other ideas, however. This family was a thorn in the neighborhood's side for 3 years. Billy Bob was always in everyone else's business. When the neighbor behind him decided to build a house on his property, Billy Bob was there, asking to put the roof on. The neighbor said No. Billy Bob was not liscensed, and when he did work, he painted another neighbor's house, that took him 6 weeks. Do YOU have a horrible neighbor? There are things you can do. Be aware of what they do. I watched Billy Bob when i could, I was so amazed nothing horrible happened at his home because of his alcoholic, obnoxious behavior. Keep a record of things the neighbor does. Billy Bob flew under the radar for those 3 years. He's gone now, and my neighborhood is back to being peaceful again. Have a great weekend!

Monavie join the craze...........NOT

I have gotten a lot of criticism about Monavie. First of all, while Monavie may work for several people, it did not work for me. I'm not willing to spend $120.00 on 3 bottles to "See" if it works. $120.00 can buy my family of 5 a lot of groceries. I have to be practical. Second, I hear that your first few days of Monavie you could see results. It made me a little sick. If you are a person who is ill, won't you try anything to get better? What are the long term results of Monavie? The morning dose my husband and I drank made us Lethargic. I was actually tired from drinking it. It tasted heavy and had a bitter taste. the Monavie distributors and those who own the company WANT you to buy more. They'll tell you that you won't see results for a few months. One bottle of Monavie lasts 6 days! For a month, 30 days , 31 days that's 5 bottles. $200 you've spent. you can get a Gym membership for less. Try it if you want, but I want to hear from more people who got sick, or felt tired like I did. Monavie, in my opinion is a scam. They will promise you wealth. They will promise you good health. But don't believe people who sell a bottle of heavy syruped fruit juice for 40$ a bottle.

Where have all the real men gone?

I want to blog about a topic near and dear to my heart. I love manly men. The manlier the better. Today's man who is metrosexual and so picky and feminine, I just don't like it. I like the old days when men were cavemen. Ladies--wouldn't you like to be clubbed and dragged back to the cave? I know that's a bit far fetched, but I dont' like men who are feminine. My husband 's friend noticed he wore a pair of jeans to work one day. I hadn't even noticed. He told my husband it's not right to wear black socks with shorts. Or boots with shorts. i find a man in cacky shorts and hiking boots sexy! This is a man who got a little dirty from work, and wouldn't go to lunch in a casual dining restaurant. I say to hell with that.......wash your hands and go to lunch. When a man is more feminine than i am, it's a real turn off. So, how is your Monday going?

Tuesday is horrible neighbor day!

I'm going to bring this back in hope's of getting more horrible neighbor stories. The stories some have sent me are worse than my horrible neighbor stories. I'd like to tell you a little about a horrible alcoholic red-neck renter that lived in my neighborhood for 3 years. I'll break it up into sections, and post some each Tuesday. My husband thought this guy was alright. I know him as a horrible father, terrible provider, alcoholic loser. We live in a pretty quiet neighborhood in Annapolis , Md. It's a big mix of split foyers, Victorians, large 4 bedroom homes, and a few developments with even larger homes. In our little section, we have a lot of different homes. My redneck alcoholic neighbor, I'll call him Billy Bob, lived in a duplex, very old, and he was a renter. Not that there is anything wrong with renters------From the first week he and his old wife, and two teenagers moved in, we knew they were undesireables. The teenagers yelled at my son. They camped out on their front porch, and they lived across our street and down two doors, so they could see us come and go out of our driveway. Each time we'd leave, they would scream at my son. Now my son found this funny. By the time they left 3 years later, they had not paid their last month's rent ( security deposit was kept), one child moved in with an older 1/2 brother, the other child with another older 1/2 brother. His wife had left him. He was drinking non-stop, and had actually come by my driveway--walked up into my driveway-drunk-telling my husband and I how he made a mistake. This man's wife had left him before. We have found out that his family of three was living in a hotel ( Red Roof Inn) at one time. Some local church was paying for them to live there, because Billy Bob had no job, and was an alcoholic. Bad neighbors are hard to get rid of. There are so many of us who live our lives the best we know how, we are considerate to our neighbors. I'm not overly religious, but I thank god Billy Bob is gone. Everyone, check out this site for horrible neighbors. The only advice I can give you is...ladies.don't let your husband befriend the redneck loser alcoholic neighbor, it only makes things worse. We can only do so much, and I did not want my 9 yr old anywhere near this man! Pay attention to the things your horrible neighbor does. If there is anything illegal--CALL. This one family disrupted our peaceful little section of neighborhood and the sad thing is.........we had a family twice as bad living two blocks away, and those poor ppl were terrorized. Locate, Rate, and Share Good and Bad Neighbors Before and After You Move

check out that site. If you think you're neighbors are horrible, you may be surprised. Have a great week!

What's on YOUR blog?

Here's a comical look at blogs I've bookmarked. I consider myself very connected to the internet, and I love to read blogs. I love reading the neighbor from hell blog because I had a few neighbors from hell. I started to tell one story one day, but it looked like no one cared. Do YOU want to read how my neighbor's wife tried to kill him? Hell, I'd read that. I have lived next door to two neighbors who have gone from sane, to insane. They were both women. No comment on their gender, please.

Here's a look on what everyone else is blogging about. First of all I just saw where Janet Jackson says she might be allergic to marriage. Janet-correction-you're just not very good at it OR you pick the wrong partners. Allergic to marriage? lol...................

o.k. I just realized i'm on the wrong screen name. Well, I came across this blog this morning. Don't you hate when you drive by someone's house and they have tacky Xmas displays? This site is full of them.

Enjoy the laugh and I'll post more later. http://tackychristmasyards.com/

Where are the parents?

There was an article in my paper today about 3 15 yr old boys sending a harassing cell phone message to a girl. First of all, who's paying all these cell phone bills? Parents- a cell phone is a privedge, not a right. I'd take any and all cell phones away from all the boys. I have a little experience raising boys. I have 3. They are ages 23, 17, and 9. As the old saying goes, boys will be boys, but someone has to watch them! I'm not saying put them on a nanny cam, but parents! Shame on you. These days someone doesn't just stalk you the old fashioned way. You get harrassed on your MySpace account, text messages, cell phone messages, and if they are really bright---a call to your hard line and leaving a voice mail. One that parents can hear. I have some advice for the parents of these unruly boys who thought it was cool to prank a poor girl with pillowcases over their heads, and holding a gun. They are 15. Who's gun is that? Well, well, looks like the father needs to put his guns away from the little boys. My 23 yr old will act like a fool at times. Kids will do whatever they can get away with. O.k. so the boys said it was a prank. Take their cell phones away. For a long time. Once some of these bratty children don't have their cell phones, they will realize they can't live without them. We did, but the children of today need them. ! The bottom line is I'm not a perfect parent, I dont pretend to be.....but the day my son starts sending threatening cell phone messages is the day he loses his phone. Have a great day--Happy Valentine's day tomorrow. Have you gotten your special someone a gift?

Monavie! What Chaos!

Hello again. I've been so busy lately, I haven't had time to post. There is one topic I'm passionate about, and it's Monavie! Monavie is a health drink that has several different fruits, and promises to make you healthy. One of the problems is that it's $40.00 a bottle. A bottle will only last you 6 days if you ration it for 2 oz in the morning and 2 oz at night. My husband and I tried monavie. I did not have negative expectations going in. I have received several comments blasting me, but for all of you wanting to know more about Monavie, you need to read this. Monavie is a multi-level marketing plan. Your distributor will no doubt try to get you to become a distributor also. It's just too expensive of a drink, and I didn't see positive results. Perhaps if a person doesn't eat fruit or eat healthy, they may see results, but I'd have to see proof of their before and after. At $40 a week roughly, you'd spend $160.00 on this juice per month per person. I've seen ads where a person is drinking an entire glass! Let me tell you again about my/my husband's experience with Monavie, and you can judge for yourself--or better yet--ask your distributor to give you a bottle for free. My husband and I are 47, 43. We're in good health. I eat healthy. Yes, I do cook my vegetables, and I eat lots of fruit daily. My husband eats a lot of fast foods, so you'd think Monavie would be a good change for him. We started taking Monavie 2 x a day for about a week. My husband/I both noticed after we drank the morning dosage, we got tired. About 4 x that week, I got a headache after a morning dose. and YES i did eat breakfast. I thought about it, and realized that with all the fruits in Monavie, perhaps it was too much fruit. The night time dosage was o.k., since my husband/I both became a little tired again. My husband, who is healthy, and is not overweight said he saw no difference drinking monavie. Although the skeptics would say use it for three months--I'm sorry, I read on a few blogs where some people could see instant results. I also read where certain ppl got sick. Dont' let anyone talk you into anything. At $40 pr bottle , there is a lot of money to be made off this health drink. There are so many other , cheaper options out there, try them for yourself. I know a distributor who is 45, and a little overweight. He will tell you it's made a difference, but he's still complaining about all his aches and pains, and was recently down with a cold. He's been drinking Monavie for 8 months. Don't be fooled. Nothing is better than eating right and exercising. A glass of Apple Juice at 2.79 a bottle is probably better for you. Have a great week!

Monavie AGAIN Try it for yourself!

I knew I'd have Monavie fans posting to my blog, and I welcome them. If you want to try Monavie--go ahead. I'm not going to buy $200.00 worth of Monavie. I have lived a healthy lifestyle, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, and I do eat plenty of vegetables. If you think that 4 oz. of Monavie will replace eating fruits and vegetables, that is just silly. I want to respond to Danny's comment. We are exactly the same age, so we've both had quite a few years of life experience. I went to the Monavie websites, and read the comments. Quite a few people said they noticed a difference right away with Monavie. I wanted to try it for myself, and i did. Of course you want me to buy more Monavie and keep spending $40 a bottle. That's how the Monavie sales reps start to make money. But in order to even start to make money, you have to recruit 6 or more people to sell Monavie. I'm not going to sell a product that didn't have any effect on me. It made me tired in the morning after a drank the 2 oz. Twice within the six days, I had a headache after drinking Monavie. Bottom line--it's not for everyone. There is no miracle drink. Monavie is an expensive drink, plain and simple. As far as Monavie doing amazing things, You cannot believe everything you hear. I would have to live with a person and watch them drink the monavie to believe it actually helped them. The Monavie team wants to make money. What better way than someone saying......... I was in a car accident a year ago, and had a sprained back. I'm on disability, and now after drinking Monavie for 3 months, my back feels better. I'm sorry, but i'm not that gullible. Danny asked how much fruit I throw away. Answer: none. I eat all my apples, oranges, blueberries, strawberries. I feel that even if I invested $200.00 in Monavie, it would not improve my quality of life. I think that perhaps Monavie helps those who are sick. Just a little. Maybe enough for them to notice, but my husband (47) and I (43) are both healthy adults. It made no difference in either of us. My husband complained of being tired after the morning dosage also. It's not about being negative, its about being truthful. It's about time someone told the truth. Bottom line: Monavie is expensive at $40 a bottle. It's like a thick grape juice. a little tangy. My husband did not care for the taste. Good luck selling the Monavie, but I just don't think its anything more than a bunch of fruits mixed up in a bottle and it's overpriced. I read what Danny wrote about cancer cells. Are you kidding me? Are the monavie people actually telling everyone that we could all have cancer cells in our body? Shame on anyone who tells that lie. If someone does have cancer, Monavie will not CURE it. They will more than likely have to go through chemotherapy, and shame on you for making them have false hopes. Stay positive about life, eat your fruits and vegetables, exercise, and don't believe everything you read. I've made it this far, and I want to be honest about my Monavie experience. Have a great week everyone!

Try a bottle of Monavie for YOURSELF

It's the magical elixer. It will make you stronger, have more of a sex drive...blah blah. I DID try a bottle of Monavie ( $40, if i bought it). I felt nothing. It did make me tired, which isn't good 1st thing in the morning. My husband and I tried a bottle each. We drank 2 oz in the morning, 2 oz at night. I'm not going to keep buying Monavie, and hope that after i spend 200 dollars, it will finally start working. No. to the anonymous commenter there IS no price on health. Eat right, eat fruits and vegetables, which i do. A power walk and a bottle of water will do better than Monavie. It's a great drink, but just too expensive. Monavie makes many claims, and has so many ppl backing them up, but after YOU try it.......just see how you feel. When i tasted it, it was like tangy grape juice that was heavy. Do your research on the ingredients, and you will find that one of the ingredients is not recommended for pregnant women and infants. It also has shellfish in it, so if you have a seafood allergy -- it's not for you. If you are selling Monavie--Good luck. you are going to need it. For those of you saying that Monavie helps cancer patients.....let them try it , and see. I know a person who drinks Monavie, and has for 4 months, and still has the same knee pain, back pain, because he just complained about it the other day. Orange juice costs 3.99. stick to that. Amen

The Real Wedding crasher

Trashy people are everywhere! Even in Idaho! A very shady lady and her daughter crashed an Acquaintances wedding. She stole gift cards and possibly gifts. She was not invited, but ate the food, socialized, and even cut the cake BEFORE the bride and groom. I say......put this woman in jail. Hopefully, someone in her family who is sane can raise her children. Shame on this woman! She is worse than my old- redneck-white trash neighbor. ! Click on this link for details. Wednesday is horrible neighbor day. My horrible neighbor is gone-but will I get another one soon? I will post a horrible neighbor story later. Do YOU have a horrible neighbor? You are not alone.
Who invited her? - AOL Video Click this link to see a real wedding crasher.

Mona Vie still drinking......

This is day 4 for my husband and I taking Mona vie. Mona vie is a fruit drink that is supposed to give you energy, and give you better over all health. I can honestly say it has a bitter taste, and I am not seeing any improvements in my general health. I do feel tired after I drink Mona vie, probably because it has so many fruits in it. It feels heavy and a little syrupy. You'd have to taste it for yourself, but it's an expensive drink. At 40 dollars a bottle, each bottle ( while drinking 2 oz a day 2 x a day) only lasts 6 days. You'd need 5 bottles a month. That's 200.00 a month. I can buy Grape juice or orange juice for 3.99 a bottle. I am the type of person who eats fruit anyway, so this is just a double-dose of fruit for me. I will let you know after day 6 how I feel, but so far, I'm the same. Billy bob has come back to cut the neighbors grass. I don't think he/commonlaw wife put in a change of address because the lady is still coming to dig through the mailbox. They've moved, but they still hang around on occasion. I'll just have to ignore them next time. Fall will be here, and no need to cut grass. Have a great Monday!

Mona vie a scam?

I have not posted in a while, but I'd like to discuss Mona vie. It's a healthy drink that has 19 different fruits in it. I have researched this drink, and have found both pro's/cons. I do not want to become a distributor because I just don't have the time, but one of my husband's friends gave us 2 bottles. I will let you know my progress. First of all, I have been losing weight, I do exercise, and I do eat plenty of fruits. I don't know if it will have much effect on me, but I'm willing to try. I do believe that very few ppl make much money selling Mona vie. My husband's friend--I'll call him Phil. Phil has invested 1000.00 in Mona vie. You can buy Mona vie on Ebay cheaper than he sells it for. My first impression was......most people don't have healthy diets. Instead of eating fruits, they can just drink 2 oz. of mona vie 2 X a day. We'll see if it does any good for me. I just started drinking it last night. So far, the taste is bitter, and after last night's dosage, I had a headache. You can see it on Ebay........
Mona vie, Dietary Supplements, Nutrition, Weight Management items on eBay.com


Phil has to sign up as many ppl ( friends,family) as he can to be distributors. Phil is overweight, and has many problems with joints, bones. I've heard he has lost no weight, and nothing seems to have changed, but after hearing how much money you COULD make ( could, not can) he wants to try it.

I'm going to give it a try. I'll be impartial. Billy Bob finally moved out of his house. His landlady gave him a month to paint the entire house, and install carpet throughout. He did a lousy job on the carpet ( I saw) and fair job on paint. The neighbors and I thought he dragged the job out because it gave him a free place to stay. He hadn't paid rent since July. He lived there in August free, and the first week of September. He's been back a few times because he cuts the neighbors lawn up the street. The neighborhood is so much quieter, and we're all happier.


Have a great weekend! Don't become a Mona vie distributer without research!!!!!!!

the LUCK he has!

First of all, I have not blogged in weeks! Kids are back in school, and my white trash neighbor Billy Bob has really been up to something! He's gotten 2 months free rent from his idiot landlady. First let me update you. This out of work alcoholic sent his kids away, his wife left him ( again) and he's doing some work on the house he is now living in......rent free! We'll never be rid of that jack-ass. Do YOU have a horrible neighbor like mine? I know it could be worse, but now the guy has some homeless man living with him. Calgon take me away!

We may be losing trashy neighbor!

Who knows if we will or not. This lush makes up so many stories he makes Pinnochio look innocent. He's having a yard sale. What he'd have anyone would want to buy is beyond me. I overheard him yelling at someone about not bringing a certain item for him to sell. He's hardcore! Begging his friends to bring their junk to sell. Here's another site to check out. WHY I HATE MY NEIGHBOUR My neighbor is still out of work, and obviously out of money. Do YOU have horrible neighbors? post your rant here. Have a wonderful Sunday, watch Big Brother tonight at 8 p.m. on Channel 9. I missed episode I, my Tivo for some strange reason did NOT record it. Toodles!

Never got the chance to sell...............

This is a true story. It happened within 10 miles of my home. A realtor got a call one day about showing a house in Bowie, Md. He left his wife and two small children. And never returned. This was a Thursday. That same day, a few hours later, his burned car was found within 3 miles of the home he was showing. The next day, the Builder found his body in the home's basement. He had been shot several times in the upper body. What happened to this poor man? I am hoping the police find his killer/killers. Would someone be so desperate as to meet a real estate agent at a home to rob him/her. His wallet was missing. But, really..........how much money do you think he had in it? The house was listed on the market at approx. 480,000. This happened in a quiet neighborhood. I don't think you are safe anywhere, anymore. I didn't know being a realtor was so dangerous. Have a great hump day! Billy Bob update...............he told us he had a job Sunday. We didnt' see him Monday, but yesterday he was home again. I wonder if he was fired?!

Just when you thought it was safe..........

A girl scout camping in the Pochonos in Pennsylvania was pulled out of her tent by a bear! The bear grabbed her sleeping bag....but it was scary enough. I was a Girl scout, but thankfully that didn't happen to me. Have a great weekend all! link: Bear Pulls Girl Scout Out of Bed - AOL Video

Billy Bob update!

Billy Bob, my redneck, alcoholic, out of work neighbor has been out of work for 6 months now. Word is....things aren't going well. His two teenage daughters are complaining about not having any money. Billy Bob won't get a job, and sits on his porch all day, watching the neighbors go by. It's like a boring soap opera. Will Billy Bob ever get a job? Will his wife be able to afford to keep their rental home? Tune in next week................. Someone should have told Billy Bob it takes hard work to make it. ! Did you hear that spoiled brat Paris Hilton is out of jail? How long was she in for? 3 days? What do you bet one of her friends told her she should freak out and pretend she's going crazy? Why can't they just put her in a mental institution for the rest of her sentence? Have a great Thursday!

Young girl Lohan in trouble again

If she comes out of a club, at 20 yrs old, drunk--that club should be shut down. Someone tell Lindsay Lohan's Dad that we really don't care about her........and care less about him. He sounds like a horrible Dad, spending time in jail, and having his own demons with drugs and alcohol. Kids will be kids, and a lot of these young stars take their money and buy drugs with it. It's sad to see, but she just doesn't have a good head on her shoulders. What a role model Ms. Lohan is. I could care less about her, and I hope she realizes how foolish she looks. Years from now, she'll be showing her own children--look how stupid Mommy was. If you want to sneak and drink alcohol Lindsey--why not do it at home? Where you won't have to drive anywhere. Lindsey needs to take a big chunk of her money and go to a long stint at Rehab. Save yourself girl, this is the only the beginning of your trouble if you dont. Have a great Thursday and don't drink and drive!

Pssssssssst! You have a run..........

How embarrassing. You go to a graduation party, wearing your black dress w/ lace, and black stockings. I was walking to the bus stop to pick up my son and saw this woman.................and on her black hose was a huge run! All I could think of....was how embarrassing and that run is going to SPREAD! I remember years ago I would take clear nail polish with me. The last formal event I went to was my nephew's wedding, and I did wear black stockings and everything turned out o.k. For anyone graduating Happy Graduation!