It's the holidays and time for annoying family

I love Xmas as much as the next person, but you can really see selfishness come out during xmas. My cousin, who has a family of four now since her daughter married, went out of town last week. I wanted to phone her and ask about Xmas, and what everyone wanted. My mother informed me that cousin Lily was going to be busy all weekend and could NOT take my call. Well, I have 3 kids, and the weekends are a little more relaxed. No school, etc. So what does Lily do? she calls me at 7:20 a.m. this morning, I'm in the shower, and says she needs to talk to me TODAY. She's going shopping. Isn't it amazing how Xmas is about giving, but certain ppl just want you to be at their beck and call. I have to blog today! I have work! I love my relatives, I suppose it's better than having none at all, but this cousin has 1 grown child, and does have her elderly father to care for, but doesnt' realize that with 3 kids, a job, my house, I'm busy too. Tomorrow is horrible neighbor day, and my neighbor has been up to absolutely nothing! Do YOU have a neighbor with too much time on their hands? I sympathize. He's not as nosey as some, but Billy Bob is just plain annoying and needs a life. He would be more comfortable in a trailer park, more his speed. He's the typical neighbor who always comments on anything new you get, ask my husband for a job, gives kids in the neighborhood unwanted advice about his drunken past, you know the type. He sticks out here like a sore thumb. Why does it bother me , you ask? Because I'm a bitch who enjoys my privacy. Have a great day, Happy Holidays and remember.....only 21 more days til Xmas. ( lol )